How do you all think we can stamp out Lateral Violence and replace it with Lateral Love in our Families and Communities?
Comments appreciated!
How do you all think we can stamp out Lateral Violence and replace it with Lateral Love in our Families and Communities?
Comments appreciated!
How many of us have experienced people we know or love behaving badly towards us recently?
Frequent manifestations of lateral violence include:
• nonverbal innuendo (raising eyebrows, face-making),
• bullying,
• verbal affront (overt/covert, snide remarks, lack of openness, abrupt responses, gossiping),
• shaming,
• undermining activities (turning away, not being available, social exclusion),
• withholding information,
• sabotage (deliberately setting up a negative situation),
• infighting (bickering, family feuds),
• scapegoating,
• backstabbing (complaining to peers and not confronting the individual),
• failure to respect privacy,
• broken confidences,
• organisational conflict,
• physical violence.
The Lateral Violence we are talking about is far from being the ‘fuzzy buzz word’ that many people choose to used to dismiss this destructive behaviour.
We must acknowledge our actions and behaviours to be able to work towards healing our souls to create positive opportunities for our future generations.
Spirit of Uluru
Rejecting Confirmation of Aboriginality for our young people – How many suicides have occurred due to this type of lateral violence? How many more must we endure before this shameful practice ceases?
Spirit of Uluru
What is Self Determination? and what does it really mean for an individual or organisation when they claim to support ‘self determination’?
Spirit of Uluru
A culturally safe and secure environment is one where people feel safe and draw strength in their identity, culture and community.
What makes you feel Culturally Safe in your place of work?
Spirit of Uluru
Who would have said, YES Prime Minister I will take your offer if you abolish the Northern Territory Intervention?
Spirit of Uluru
Can I have hands up from all our people who know the answers to the following questions?
Who is your member for Local Government?
Who is your member for State Government?
Who is your member for Federal Government?
This year, of all years, we need to know these Individuals in order for each and every one of us to write and demand that they subscribe to “ZERO TOLERANCE TO LATERAL VIOLENCE AND RACISM”.
Are your pens out?
Will enough be done by our collective followers now that we are committed to respect, love, healing, self-determination, cultural safety, honesty and care for the worlds’ children to make a change this year?
If the answer to our situation throughout our communities nationwide is self-determination, then why isn’t every Aboriginal and Islander (including the Torres Straits) peoples teaching every single one of our children about self-determination and what this means in regards to healing our broken families and communities and how this is necessary to build a stronger next generation?
Spirit of Uluru
How will the Australian Government bring on the Referendum to change the Constitution when the colonisation orders by the British have not been cancelled?
The order for the colonisation of Australia was the same as the colonisation of all other countries around the world.
The first principal of colonisation is the conquering of the inhabitants, usurp and destroy the culture of the people of the land and kill off any semblance of resistance from the Aboriginal peoples.
Is this the year that we can expect to see our children experience a reduction from abuse and deprivation and be given the love and care that is needed to grow and carry on the culture of Aboriginal and Islander (including the Torres Straits) peoples?
Why are so many people not getting housing when they have been on the waiting list for years?
And why are Housing Authorities selling Aboriginal houses when they are repairable like the one on Old Port Road?
Spirit of Uluru
Are we this year going to give more respect to our Elders, instead of what I have seen travelling from Community to Community?
Some of our Elders have been refused a service from Organisations, when these Organisations have been provided funds from Government to provide a service for ALL of our peoples.
The cruel aspect of this sad scenario is this; it was the Elders, whom years ago, were the ones who marched and fought for these services to be established in the first place and now the Johnny come lately people are denying them!
Spirit of Uluru
Why are Aboriginal and Islander (including the Torres Straits) peoples continuing to allow the gate keepers to control us, our families, our elders, our youth, and our babies lives?
Are we becoming so lame that we no longer know how to fight for self-determination?
How many people in Australia still have otitis media towards Lateral Violence and Racism?
Spirit of Uluru
What is the true dollar value of the Australian Aboriginal and Islander (including the Torres Straits) Industry? $$$$$$$$$$
If anyone can establish this, please let us all know!
“We know who is leading this movement. It is the women, and so men, when a woman like Chief Spence says it is time to work together, it is time to be unified, it is time to be idle no more, we better listen.” ~ First Nations Chief Shawn Atleo

Hundreds of First Nations protesters waved flags, chanted slogans and shook a collective fist at the federal government as they gathered on Parliament Hill to put Canada on notice they would be “idle no more.”
More than 1,000 protesters, a group stretching several city blocks, marched through the streets of the capital Friday after meeting with Theresa Spence, the chief of northern Ontario’s troubled Attawapiskat First Nation, who is on a hunger strike.
National Assembly of First Nations Chief Shawn Atleo addressed the crowd, saying, “The year 2013, it harkens a moment of reckoning in this country.”
He told the young activists gathered on the Hill that they they were “the change that we’ve been waiting for” and also called on Canadians to support the growing movement and its quest for Ottawa’s recognition of aboriginal treaty rights.
“We reach out to Canadians,” Atleo said. “We want you to understand that the Department of Justice, that the federal government, that so many governments over so many years, they stand on a principle that is unacceptable.”
“Canadians, we are counting on you to stand with us and to do this now at this juncture in history,” he added.
“We are tired of having the boot put to our head,” Algonquin Chief Gilbert Whiteduck told the gathering beneath the Peace Tower under a steady barrage of snow.
“We want the government of Canada to come to the table in a spirit of unconditional openness and transparency.”
Other rallies were held in various cities across the country. Demonstrations in support of Spence’s cause also took place in the United States.
Hundreds of people briefly blocked one of the busiest intersections in Toronto in solidarity with Idle No More, a grassroots aboriginal protest movement gaining traction on social media. Several Manitoba First Nations groups also rallied at the Winnipeg International Airport, congesting traffic.
In Montreal, more than 100 supporters of Idle No More gathered peacefully in Cabot Square, while dozens of members of the Listiguj Mi’gmaq community blocked Highway 132 and slowed traffic on the interprovincial bridge that connects Quebec to the Maritimes.
Idle No More organizers oppose the Harper government’s recently passed omnibus budget legislation, Bill C-45, and accuse the Tories of trampling on treaty rights.
Julie Vaux, a spokeswoman for Harper, said the rallies did not change the government’s position. The Conservatives insist they are taking strong action to address aboriginal concerns.
As recently as Nov. 28, Harper and Aboriginal Affairs Minister John Duncan met with Assembly of First Nations Chief Shawn Atleo and others to review progress to date and discuss a range of issues, Vaux said.
“Our government hosted an historic gathering of the Crown and First Nations this past January,” she also noted.
“Since then, the government has been working with First Nations leadership to make progress in several areas, most notably education and infrastructure on reserve.”
For First Nations people, however, that progress has been far from enough.
And many see Spence as a warrior standing up for all Canadians.
Spence has been on a hunger strike since Dec. 11, living in a tipi on an island in the Ottawa River that many aboriginals consider to be sacred land. Atleo met with her Friday and said she appeared weak from 10 days of ingesting mainly water and fish broth.
Atleo joined demands for the government to intervene on Spence’s hunger strike and highlighted her importance in the Idle No More movement.
“We know who is leading this movement. It is the women,” Atleo told the crowd in Ottawa. “And so men, when a woman like Chief Spence says it is time to work together, it is time to be unified, it is time to be idle no more, we better listen.”
Shelly Young, an aboriginal activist from Nova Scotia, wept during a panel discussion Friday in Halifax as she spoke of how Spence is inspiring others.

“I think sometimes we have to do the extreme to get the attention of the government, because they’re ignoring us.”
Atleo told CBC News Friday evening that he had not yet received a reply from the Prime Minster’s Office about meeting with Spence.
Protesters in Nova Scotia also held a peaceful demonstration along Highway 102 in the Truro area, causing about eight kilometres of traffic gridlock.
The Canadian Auto Workers and civil service unions across the country have also shown support for the movement, saying they stand in solidarity with First Nations in a struggle against Bill C-45.
Spence did not take part in the Ottawa rally, but on Thursday, she wrote to Harper and Gov. Gen. David Johnston, urging them to start a national discussion about poverty in First Nations communities.
With files from CBC News
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